according to the personality of the survivor and his relationship to the deceased. Muscular weakness, upset stomach and tightness in the throat may be expected. As I stumbled through my first bewildering days alone, I clung to the daily reminders from God’s Word that God cares for me and that He works all things together for His good, as He promises in Romans 8:28. Although I did not know how any good could come from what was then so awful, I knew this promise is true. God does not lie. The numbness